March 3, 2004
Change - Lead, Follow, or Get Out of The Way
Some external changes in our lives are like principles, or natural laws, whether you believe in the change or not it will occur, you have no control over it.
All you have control over is how you will deal with it. To do so however takes some understanding of some of the other principles associated with change.
Change is always a result of dissatisfaction. We, or someone, is not happy or content with the current status quo and as a result institutes change.
When this occurs it immediately takes us out of our comfort zone, the place we like to be. When this happens we will go through a grieving process.
That process may be different for all of us but we all go through it. Why? Because we have lost something. Change is taking something away. When we identify with that something we grieve over it |